Hi, I'm Dr. Bernie...

Welcome! Whether this is your first time exploring Christian Life Coaching or you’ve had similar experiences before, I'm glad you stopped by!

Whether you're new to Christianity or have been practicing for some time, ZERO worries! You're in a judgement-free, safe-space no matter where you are on your walk!

All are welcome. Seriously. 🫶

Who's Christian Coaching For?

Christian coaching is for anyone seeking to deepen their walk with Christ, regardless of where they are on their spiritual journey.

(1) For those EXPLORING, Christian Coaching offers a safe space to ask questions, seek understanding, and discover the truth of who Christ is and what it means to live in relationship with Him.

It's a journey of discovery, where you’ll find clarity and purpose in your faith.

(2) For those walking with Christ, Christian Coaching is an opportunity to go deeper (SEEK and GROW). It’s about continuing to grow in faith, love, and service, and addressing areas where you feel called to greater spiritual maturity.

Through personalized support, you’ll experience renewal, transformation, and a stronger alignment with God’s purpose for your life.

Whether you're:

• exploring the Christian faith for the first time,

• returning to a relationship with God after a season away,

• or already committed to your spiritual path but longing for greater growth,

Christian Coaching can provide the guidance, encouragement, and tools to help you thrive.

1. Spiritual growth – To deepen your relationship with Christ

2. Life purpose – To gain clarity on God’s purpose and direction for your life

3. Career discernment – To seek guidance in making career decisions that align with your Christian values

4. Overcoming challenges – To navigate personal struggles, hardships, or life transitions with Biblical wisdom

5. Restoring relationships – To improve relationships through forgiveness, communication, and Christ-like love

Top 10 Reasons for Christian Coaching

6. Healing from past wounds – To experience emotional or spiritual healing from past traumas or hurts.

7. Accountability – To find accountability in spiritual disciplines, such as prayer, Bible study, and serving others

8. Work-life balance – To manage the pressures of career, family, and faith in a Christ-centered way

9. Rediscovering faith – To rekindle a relationship with God after a period of doubt or spiritual stagnation.

10. Leadership development – To grow in leadership, whether in ministry, work, or personal life, by following Christ’s example.

5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. James 1:5

About Spiritual.direct ❤️ Christian Coaching

📚 EXPERIENCE

Decades of experience in ministry and a life-long Christian.

Current roles: Certified Professional Coach, ecumenical ordained minister

Roles served: coach, pastoral counselor, counselor, staff psychologist, and assistant professor.

PERSONALIZED APPROACH 👂

🤝 COACHING PARTNERSHIP

SUCCESS-ORIENTED 👏

Everything we do is centered on you— your goals, values, and unique journey with God. Here, your voice is heard, your needs come first, and your vision leads the way.

Experience a supportive, creative coaching partnership in Christ —an enjoyable conversation guided by God, our shared wisdom and focused on your next steps.

Together, we’ll craft a Christian Coaching experience that aligns with your goals and empowers you to confidently move towards the life you want.

Schedule your FREE Initial Consultation today!

✅ Simple and Affordable Professional Christian Coaching !

COACHING SESSION FEE

• $50 per 50 minute session

• Free Initial Consultation

• 50 minutes session via phone or video

• 1 follow-up message at no additional cost up to 1 week following session

• No limit on bookings

• Available weekdays and weekends

• Available world-wide where permitted by law

COACHING SLIDING SCALE FEE

• $25 per 50 minute session

• For clergy, seminarians, military, students, retirees, educators, state and government employees, first responders, and/or

• For clients experiencing significant financial stress

• Same services as coaching session, honor system booking

• Approval obtained in FREE Initial Consultation

• Still too much? No problem. 🫶

Schedule Your FREE Initial Meeting Today!

GROW

SEEK

"And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him." Hebrews 11:6

Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. " John 14:6

EXPLORE

"The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed, which a man took and planted in his field. 32 Though it is the smallest of all seeds, yet when it grows, it is the largest of garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds come and perch in its branches." Matthew 13:31-32

🟨 Seeking a deeper connection with God?

🟨 Struggling to find clarity in your purpose or calling as a Christian?

🟨 Find it difficult to balance your faith with everyday responsibilities and challenges?

🟪 Exploring Christianity?

🟪 Do you feel stuck in your spiritual growth and unsure of how to move forward in your relationship with Christ?

🟨 Want to strengthen your faith and overcome doubts or fears that are holding you back?

🟩 Facing a life transition—such as a new job, marriage, or relocation—and need Christ-centered support?

🟩 Seeking support on how to serve others while caring for your own spiritual health?

🟨 Do you want to set and achieve meaningful, faith-based goals that honor God’s plan for your life?

🟩 Looking for strategic encouragement as you strive to live a more intentional, Christ-centered life?

🟪 Are you looking for someone to consult with as you as you explore your faith?

🟩 Looking for Christian coaching related to illness, injury or end of life care?

🟨 Do you yearn for deeper alignment between your daily life and your faith?

🟪 Exploring baptism or baptized?

🟪 Returning to the Faith?

🟪 Want support in informed, engaging and Christ-centered ways?

🟩 Seeking support to explore your faith?

SEEK

EXPLORE

GROW

Frequently Asked Questions

Are virtual and in-person sessions available?

Available primarily online and by phone. In-person sessions are available on a very limited basis and ONLY in North Austin, Round Rock, Pflugerville, Leander, Jarrell and Georgetown (Texas).

In-person sessions are not available for the free initial consultation or first session.

In-person sessions may include an additional fee of up to $60 per session depending on distance and meeting location. Limited availability, authorization required.

How do I start?

The first step is the FREE Initial Consultation. Your FREE initial consultation is a chance for us to connect and explore how coaching can support your goals. During this 15-25 minute session, we’ll discuss your current challenges, aspirations, and what you hope to achieve through coaching. It’s an opportunity for you to share your story, ask questions, and get a feel for how we’ll work together.

We’ll also cover what a personalized coaching plan might look like for you, including the tools and strategies we’ll use to help you move forward. By the end of our conversation, you’ll have a clear understanding of how coaching can benefit you, without any pressure to commit.

It’s simply a relaxed, open conversation focused on your needs—let’s start building the future you want!

Click here to schedule your free initial consultation

How do I continue receiving coaching services? How often do we meet?

The second step is to complete the Coaching Agreement (if you haven't already). After you've gotten approval in the FREE Initial Consultation and completed your Coaching Agreement form, you are free to schedule your first coaching session! You can both schedule and pay on the Booking Page.

On the Booking Page, you can choose between 3 session types: a 50 minute session, a 75 minute session and a 50 minute sliding scale session. Sliding scale approval is obtained in the FREE Initial Consultation.

Clients have different preferences for scheduling their sessions. Some choose to book their next appointment at the end of each session, while others schedule as their availability allows.

Some clients prefer regular meetings (weekly or bi-weekly), while others opt to space out their sessions based on their evolving needs.

Clients typically start with an average of 3-5 sessions, but there are no requirements or expectations.

You have the flexibility to choose the number of sessions that best meet your needs.

What client needs are NOT a fit for spiritual.direct?

1. Mental Health Disorders – Coaching is NOT a replacement for therapy. Conditions such as depression, anxiety, or trauma that require clinical intervention from a licensed therapist or psychiatrist.

2. Substance Abuse, Addiction – Issues requiring specialized treatment or recovery programs.

3. Severe Emotional Distress – Ongoing emotional crises, grief, or trauma that need therapeutic support.

4. Lack of Self-Motivation – Coaching works best when the client is motivated to take action. A lack of willingness to engage in self-directed change can hinder progress, however, clients with low motivation and willingness may be a fit.

5. Medical Conditions Affecting Behavior – Medical issues that may influence behavior, such as brain injuries or neurological conditions, which may require medical or therapeutic intervention.

6. Legal or Financial Counseling Needs – Situations involving legal advice, financial planning, or business consulting beyond the scope of coaching expertise.

7. At-risk or crisis needs – Suicidality, homicidality and/or self-harm behavior that places the client at-risk.

8. Those not genuinely interested in exploring Christianity.

9. Must be 18 years old or older.

How do I terminate services?

I understand that circumstances can change, and you may decide to end coaching services at any time. If you feel you’ve achieved your goals or that coaching is no longer the right fit, you’re welcome to conclude our work together.

To terminate coaching, simply notify me by email or during a session. I’ll review your progress, discuss any remaining concerns, and ensure you feel confident moving forward. There are no long-term commitments or cancellation fees—you’re in control of your coaching journey from start to finish.

I’m committed to making this process seamless and respectful of your needs.

What's the Difference Between a Minister and Pastor?

A Christian minister is a broad term referring to anyone ordained or appointed to serve in a leadership or teaching capacity within the church. Ministers may fulfill various roles, including preaching, teaching, administering sacraments, or serving in specialized areas like missionary work or chaplaincy.

A pastor, on the other hand, specifically refers to someone who shepherds or leads a local congregation, focusing on spiritual care, counseling, and nurturing the faith of church members. The word pastor means shepherd, and this role emphasizes building relationships and guiding the spiritual growth of a community.

In short, while all pastors are ministers, not all ministers are pastors. Ministers can serve in diverse capacities within the church, whereas pastors are particularly responsible for the spiritual well-being and leadership of a congregation.

Are coaching services confidential?

Coaching services are confidential but have limits. For more information see the coaching agreement here.

Questions?

What does "ecumenical" mean? "Ecumenical minister" ?

Ecumenical refers to efforts aimed at promoting unity and cooperation among different Christian denominations. The word comes from the Greek oikoumene, meaning "the whole inhabited world," and is often used in contexts where churches work together across doctrinal or denominational lines.

Ecumenical movements seek to overcome divisions and focus on shared beliefs, fostering dialogue, joint worship, and collaborative efforts in service, mission work, or theological discussions.

An ecumenical minister is a Christian leader who actively participates in or promotes ecumenical activities. This minister may work with various Christian denominations, encouraging unity and cooperation while respecting the distinct traditions of each group.

Ecumenical ministers often engage in interdenominational services, dialogues, and joint outreach programs, helping to bridge divides and focus on common Christian values and missions. Their work is rooted in the belief that the Christian faith can be more powerful when churches come together in shared purpose, despite their differences.

Are results guaranteed?

While I am committed to providing you with the tools, support, and guidance necessary for your personal growth, results cannot be guaranteed. Each individual’s journey is unique, and success depends on various factors, including your level of commitment, openness to change, and active participation in the coaching process.

Coaching is a collaborative effort, and the progress you make is influenced by your willingness to engage with the process.

Together, we will set goals and create a personalized plan to help you achieve your desired outcomes. Your journey is yours to shape, and I’m here to support you every step of the way!

Are results confidential?

Limits of Confidentiality: As your coach, your privacy is of utmost importance to me. The information shared during coaching sessions is generally kept confidential to create a safe and trusting environment. However, there are some legal and ethical limits to this confidentiality. These include situations where there is a risk of harm to yourself or others, suspicion of abuse or neglect of a child, elderly, or vulnerable person, or if we are required by a court order to disclose information.

While these instances are rare, they are important to understand as part of our commitment to your safety and the ethical standards of our practice. If you have any questions or concerns about confidentiality, please feel free to discuss them with Dr. Bernie.